44-year-old virgin shares his plans for when he decides to have sex
The business owner has revealed what plans he has for when he finally loses his virginity.
A 44-year-old man has revealed his plans for when he has sex for the first time.
Stephen Kinnard may be 44-years-old and never had sex before, but that doesn't mean he's sworn off sex or doesn't care about ever having it.
The business owner has opened up about why he's not done the deed yet and what his plans are for when he does decide to lose his virginity.
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On an episode of LADbible TV's Honesty Box series, Stephen reflects on why he's not had sex yet, noting 'there is a big question mark over that'.
"Because I'm not socially awkward," he continues. "I don't really have any funny habits that would be classed as weird. I'm sociable and I've got a wide range of friends."
The business owner adds: "And I would consider myself very normal but very shy, and especially shy when I talk to women."
So, how will he know when it's the right time to lose his virginity?
Well, Stephen explains he does plan to have sex when he finds the right partner.
And when he does find that person, he adds he will be 'totally honest' about being a virgin and make sure they 'feel comfortable as well'.
"And make them feel that I'm not a special case. And yes, when the time is right, I will do," he says.
But how does he think he'll find the right person?
Stephen notes he doesn't use any dating apps despite having been on them in the past.
And while he briefly considered paying a sex worker to lost his virginity in his late twenties, he decided against the idea.
"I hear a lot of people say things such as, 'Oh, it's only sex. Just go and do it. Sex is not important," he notes. "But to me, somehow it's always been important and a very private thing between two people and something that I've always wanted to be special."
Ultimately, if he didn't ever meet the right person, Stephen says he wouldn't 'necessarily' be happy to go his whole life without sex, but he's also 'prepared' if it doesn't all pan out that way for him.
The business owner resolves: "And I'm learning that, after all, it's not the most important thing, it's just an element of life and I'm gonna make life the best I can and enjoy it.
"Enjoy the people that are around me and just enjoy other life experiences."
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