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44-year-old virgin explains why he’s never slept with a sex worker

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Updated 11:35 11 Jan 2024 GMTPublished 11:36 11 Jan 2024 GMT

44-year-old virgin explains why he’s never slept with a sex worker

The businessman did once consider it in his late 20s.

Poppy Bilderbeck

Poppy Bilderbeck

A 44-year-old man has spoken out about why he's chosen to not pay a sex worker to lose his virginity.

Approaching his middle ages, Stephen Kinnard has much experience as a business owner, but not as much when it comes to the bedroom.

The 44-year-old has never had sex and has since opened up about why he's never decided to pay someone to take his virginity either.

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Catch an insight into the interview here:

In an episode of LADbible TV's Honesty Box series, Stephen answered the question: "Have you ever considered using a sex worker to take your virginity?"

The business owner admits he 'did once' consider the option of paying someone to try and take his virginity when he was in his 'late 20s'.

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However, he ultimately resolved not to and says he still 'would certainly not do so'. But why?

Stephen Kinnard could've paid someone to have sex with him, but he hasn't.
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Well, Stephen reflects it's 'a personal choice' but it would make him 'feel hideous afterwards'.

"Sex has always been a very important thing and affection and the right environment and that's certainly not for me," he adds.

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Elsewhere in the episode, Stephen revealed he's not sure why he's remained a virgin for 44 years, noting he's 'not socially awkward' and doesn't 'really have any funny habits that would be classed as weird'.

"I would consider myself very normal but very shy and especially shy when I talk to women," he says.

He continues: "I hear a lot of people say things such as, 'Oh, it's only sex. Just go and do it. Sex is not important.'

"But to me, somehow it's always been important and a very private thing between two people and something that I've always wanted to be special."

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Stephen has always wanted sex to be 'special'.
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And if he never meets the right person? Well, Stephen says he wouldn't 'necessarily' be happy but is 'prepared in case' he goes his whole life without ever having sex.

"I'm learning that, after all, it's not the most important thing, it's just an element of life, and I'm gonna make life the best I can and enjoy it.

"Enjoy the people that are around me and just enjoy other life experiences," he adds.

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Stephen hopes to make other people who are virgins later on in life feel less alone.
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Stephen hopes by speaking publicly about still being a virgin at the age of 44 that he can help reassure others, noting in the past he's felt 'very sad' and on his 'own'.

"It's quite a private thing, obviously," he continues. "And most people lose their virginity when they're younger. So as I've got older, I've found it more of a struggle being a virgin, and I've realised that there are other people out there that are the same as me."

"So I've felt the need to talk about it [...] and hopefully it will help other people like how it's helped me."

If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available through Mental Health America. Call or text 988 or chat 988lifeline.org. You can also reach Crisis Text Line by texting MHA to 741741.

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You can also call 1-800-985-5990 or text “TalkWithUs” to 66746 at the SAMHSA Disaster Distress Helpline.

Featured Image Credit: LADbible TV

Topics: Sex and Relationships, YouTube, Social Media

Poppy Bilderbeck
Poppy Bilderbeck

Poppy Bilderbeck is a Senior Journalist at LADbible Group. She graduated from The University of Manchester in 2021 with a First in English Literature and Drama, where alongside her studies she was Editor-in-Chief of The Tab Manchester. Poppy is most comfortable when chatting about all things mental health, is proving a drama degree is far from useless by watching and reviewing as many TV shows and films as possible and is such a crisp fanatic the office has been forced to release them in batches.

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