Private investigator reveals how cheaters get away with affairs so easily and how to spot it
Topics: Sex and Relationships, Technology
Dan Seddon
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Topics: Sex and Relationships, Technology
Cheaters are getting away with playing away from home thanks to one thing on their mobile phones, according to a private investigator.
Finding out your partner is cheating on you is one of the worst things you can hear in a relationship, with several experts over the years putting in their two cents when it comes to the red flag signs and subtle hints that could indicate someone is two-timing.
But what about those cheaters who have been getting away with it?
Well, a private investigator has given his take on how your partner could be cheating right under your nose.
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I-Spy Detectives investigator Paul Evans weighed in on the world of successful adulterers, and in his breakdown of how these people seem to get away with their antics, Evans singled out one app present in every smartphone, which is manipulated into something untrustworthy.
He's seen a rise in shared calendar apps being sneakily utilised, making it almost painfully easy to hide what's really going down.
"On the surface, it looks like a harmless dentist appointment or a work meeting, but when you dig deeper, those calendar entries are often a cover for something else," he told Metro.
"We've uncovered cases where the same slot is used every week, always in a different location, and never with a trace of genuine work behind it."
Evans has apparently exposed cheaters who've gone as far as to design 'secret codes' for where they'd meet up with their bit on the side. This includes terms like 'team lunch' or 'client call'.
These calendar apps can operate 'without raising suspicion' for months, as partners potentially checking phones won't even 'think twice' about 'work-related' pop-ups.
"If your partner always seems to be 'working late' on Tuesdays, but there are no calls, no emails, and no explanation, it’s worth questioning," he warned.
"Patterns are the biggest giveaway. You don’t have to go snooping, but you can start by asking direct questions. Most affairs unravel when people spot the little inconsistencies."
This comes after a brothel manager named Catherine De Noire claimed women can identify a cheat quite easily by watching their husband's cash withdrawal activity.
"A lot of guys don't carry enough cash," she commented. "So then they go and withdraw money from an ATM, which is usually somewhere near the brothel or inside the brothel.
"This is very suspicious, especially when you see that your partner withdraws a lot of money at four in the morning in this area, and the account is a shared one."