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Brothel manager reveals most common ways cheating husbands are caught by their wives
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Published 12:50 4 Aug 2025 GMT+1

Brothel manager reveals most common ways cheating husbands are caught by their wives

The manager thinks that 60 to 70 percent of her clientele are in relationships

Niamh Shackleton

Niamh Shackleton

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Niamh Shackleton
Niamh Shackleton

Niamh Shackleton is an experienced journalist for UNILAD, specialising in topics including mental health and showbiz, as well as anything Henry Cavill and cat related. She has previously worked for OK! Magazine, Caters and Kennedy.

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A brothel manager has shared the ways she believes most cheating husbands go on to get caught by their wives.

Statistics have found that men in heterosexual relationships are more likely to be unfaithful than their wives. Per the Institute for Family Studies, 20 percent of men have cheated while 13 percent of women have.

And there are many signs that your significant other might be cheating on you, one being a change in their behavior.

Another, according to dating expert Claire Rénier, is if they all of a sudden become secretive with their tech — i.e changing their passwords that you used to know.

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But there are other reasons why wives are said to be growing suspicious of their husbands, says OnlyFans star and brothel manager Catherine De Noire.

Late night ATM withdrawals

Unusal cash withdrawals could be a sign you're partner's cheating (Getty Stock Image)
Unusal cash withdrawals could be a sign you're partner's cheating (Getty Stock Image)

"The first thing is that a lot of guys don't carry enough cash," shared Catherine. "So then they go and withdraw money from an ATM, which is usually somewhere near the brothel or inside the brothel."

She continued: "This is very suspicious, especially when you see that your partner withdraws a lot of money at 4AM in the morning in this area, and the account is a shared one."

Sharing phone location

Of course this can be a hugely beneficial safety measure in some circumstances, but location-sharing apps can also come to back to bite you in the ass.

Catherine said on this: "Some guys have shared locations enabled, so their partner can actually see where they are, or they have location history on their maps."

Brothel ticket stubs

More than half of men who visit a brothel are thought to be married (Getty Stock Image)
More than half of men who visit a brothel are thought to be married (Getty Stock Image)

"Another way wives and girlfriends have found out is by finding tickets to the brothel in their partners pockets," explained Catherine.

She went on to recall: "Once, I had this guy come in with his wife saying he was getting married in a week and she found a ticket in his pocket. He asked me to tell her it wasn't him and to show her the CCTV cameras. I told him it wasn't possible to go through all the footage from our 60+ cameras. I said, 'You need to speak with your wife.'"

Yikes.

Why men might visit a brothel

Catherine believes that a married man might be inclined to go to a brothel if his sexual fantasies aren't being met.

"There’s so many reasons a married man might be attending a brothel,” said the OnlyFans star.

"The marriage might not be working but they don’t want to break it, or they might have a very specific erotic fantasy they want to explore but are too afraid to ask their partner and be judged for it. I see this a lot with BDSM as this is something a lot of men come in for, and they don’t want to engage in it with their partners because the relationship dynamic could shift."

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