Man with 500 partners and six girlfriends explains why monogamy isn't for him
Topics: Sex and Relationships
Lucy Devine
Featured Image Credit: Anthony Alvarenga
Topics: Sex and Relationships
A man who says he's been with over 500 women has revealed why he'll never be monogamous.
Anthony Alvarenga, 23, from Los Angeles, has been married twice and has four children.
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But now Anthony has decided that settling down isn't for him and currently leads a non-monogamous lifestyle.
While he claims to have slept with over 500 partners, he also has six girlfriends.
And although he's happy to see other people at the same time, Anthony says his girlfriends 'can't talk to other men'.
"They have to be loyal to me of course. That's my standard - if she has a few guys on the go then it's over, we're done," he said.
"I wouldn't spend more than one night or one day with a woman who is talking to anyone else. People may have a problem with that but I think that it's my life and if a woman isn't OK with how I feel then she's free to go.
"There is no lock keeping her here - she's there of her own free will."
Anthony is a self-made millionaire after dropping out of school to become a trader.
He now owns $3m worth of supercars and over $1.5m in jewellery.
But despite being content in his career, Anthony struggled with personal relationships in the past.
His first marriage ended after two weeks, while his second only lasted a few months.
Following his divorces, Anthony wants to focus on his kids, making money and enjoying his success.
He currently goes out up to four times a week and is planning on sleeping with 'well over' 1,000 women in the next few years.
“I’ve settled down a few times in the past and I have no intention of ever doing it again,” he said.
“I’ve been through way too much with the last two marriages to realise that it’s not the way to go.
“It always ends the same. They end up getting pregnant and I love my babies but it always ends up falling apart after a few years.
“Your feelings get lost and women get too crazy so the whole thing seems like a waste of time.
“I would rather spend those years making money and memories than end up losing it to a relationship that is going to die anyway.
“And in my position, I get a lot of eyes on me. A lot of girls can’t handle that which is why my approach works perfectly.”