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Ella Scott
Topics: Sex and Relationships, OnlyFans, Community, Money
Unfortunately, cheating can sometimes occur in monogamous relationships, but an OnlyFans creator believes they’ve cracked the code on male infidelity.
According to statistics from the Smith Investigation Agency, around 40 percent of people in unmarried relationships will deal with acts of adultery.
Moreover, it’s claimed that a staggering 70 percent of Americans will engage in an extramarital affair during their marital life, so make sure you’re staying safe out there!
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According to an OnlyFans creator from Nottingham, UK, they believe there’s a simple reason why males often cheat on their female partners.
Bonnie Blue is an adult entertainer who claimed earlier this year that she’d slept with around 122 people on a three-week break to Cancun, Mexico.
In a new interview, the 25-year-old said that women ‘moan a lot’, which makes them appear ‘unattractive’ to their boyfriends and husbands.
Speaking to The Daily Star, the content creator said: “Women, especially as they get older, become lazy in the bedroom and think a pillow princess performance will keep their husbands happy.
"When in fact that’s when I find them booking me for the weekend."
She then revealed her theory: "If women were better in the bedroom, men wouldn’t cheat.
"All their nagging about pots not being done is resulting in me being bent over their kitchen worktops whilst they’re out.
"I used to blame the men for cheating but since being a sex worker, I blame the woman.
"Men look elsewhere when they’re bored, so stop boring them."
Interestingly, Blue isn’t the only person to hypothesise why men cheat.
Earlier this year, a registered therapist revealed the most common ‘justifications’ they hear regarding infidelity.
Clara Zelleroth, a licensed psychologist and couples therapist spoke to Metro and said many people claim the incident ‘just happened’.
“This decision is typically influenced by factors such as alcohol or a time of high stress, making a person more likely to cheat when the opportunity occurs," she explained.
"In the aftermath, individuals often describe the scenario as 'it just happened'.”
Another couple of justifications for cheating she’s heard include sexual and emotional dissatisfaction as well as lack of commitment.
“Infidelity can also be linked to low commitment in the primary relationship,” she told the publication.
“People may rationalise their actions with statements like 'we were just about to break up' or 'we are not really in a committed relationship at the moment, just casually dating,' but their partner might not feel or view the relationship in the same way.”
She added that these feelings often stem from a lack of mutual communication which can therefore lead to differing perceptions between partners.
“You could think of this as the 'we were on a break' moment between Ross and Rachel from Friends,” she added.