Being cheated on pretty much sucks. But before you can even confront the person, it is best to be sure and a private investigator has revealed a key action he has seen from male cheaters.
Some people who think their partner is cheating just take a stab in a dark, (not literally thankfully), and go on gut instinct and tell their partner they know, ultimately hoping for a confession.
Others are insistent on getting proof and that is where private investigators come in.
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One private investigator has stated that during his stakeouts on suspected male cheaters, they regularly do one thing ahead of meeting up with their mistress.
Connecticut PI Ray Ranno has said that while stakeouts can be boring, they become more interesting when he picks up on the signs which allows him to wager on what will happen next.
Speaking on the Locked In with Ian Bick podcast earlier this month, Ranno shared some of his wisdom.
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“If a guy's going to pick up his sweetie on the side, he wants a clean car,” the detective said.
He added he would regularly see guys get their car all spruced up before moving ahead with their infidelity.
He continued: “As soon as somebody goes to the car wash I think ‘Ha ha, what's next?’ It’s amazing how they do that. Women not so much. Women don't do it so much because they usually jump in the guy's car, men always want to drive. It's very rare that I see a guy jump into a female's car.”
He also explained that after the pair have met, he gets to his part of gathering evidence for the paying party.
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He also dismissed the stereotypes of a guy in a fedora and massive trench coat simply taking pictures from a car.
He went on to reveal his rather tech-savvy gadgets he uses to catch people in the act.
Ranno noted that, while he does have a long-lens camera for picture and video evidence, he also has a fake coffee cup with a high-definition camera inside so that he can tail and observe them in plain sight.
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"If I go into a coffee place, or a supermarket wherever I need to be, I just take the lid off turn it on put the cap on and it looks like I'm walking around with a coffee. Meantime I'm videotaping everything," he said.
After he has got sufficient evidence, the videos and pictures then go to the person paying him and all is well... well not really, but his job is done.
Topics: Sex and Relationships, Technology
Gerrard Kaonga