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Topics: Sex and Relationships, Community, Christmas
Gerrard Kaonga
Topics: Sex and Relationships, Community, Christmas
A woman who describes herself as a serial mistress has revealed the clear signs that a partner may be playing away.
With Christmas quickly approaching, for some this means it is time to get pumped up and get stuck into the holiday rush, while for others it is time to slow down, reflect and enjoy the pleasures of life.
Well, according to Gweneth Lee, a self-described mistress, for some married men, they often use this time to have affairs - unknown to their partners.
Speaking to the Mail Online, 57-year-old Lee remarked that this is often a beneficial arrangement as she gets to enjoy the lavish dinners and gifts from her wealthy suitors while they have their sexual desires satisfied.
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With this arrangement, they are now satisfied with her after not getting this physical attention from their wives or partners, Lee told the outlet.
She also pointed out with one person she used to date, Philip, had this arrangement benefit his wife as well, as he would no longer pester her for intimacy.
She said: “It means she gets to do the things she enjoys with him – walking their wolfhounds and playing family board games – without having to worry about rounding off the day in the role of goddess in the bedroom.
“I know from my friends – some of whom, jokingly, ask if I’d be willing to 'service' their husbands – that it’s very rare to still want to be hanging from the chandeliers after 30 years of marriage. Particularly at Christmas - the most stressful time of the year for many mothers.”
Lee also pointed out that there are at least clear signs that your partner might be having an affair.
She said: “There are the obvious ones, like keeping his phone face down at all times. But also, if he starts wearing better underwear and socks. Oh, and if his usually neglected nethers suddenly appear well-groomed with a shaver... that’s a classic tell.”
As well as this, Lee also addressed the question of why she so often dates or entangles herself with married men.
She explained that she is not looking for a normal monogamous relationship and appreciates the lifestyle she is able to live as a result.
She added: ”I’ve always had a very high sex drive. Ordinary, routine sex just doesn’t satisfy me – I crave excitement and unpredictability, something you rarely find in long-term, monogamous relationships.”