Jennifer Lopez makes honest comment about her 4 marriages after Ben Affleck’s ‘embarrassing’ divorce admission

Jennifer Lopez addressed her past relationship issues when she responded to a fan during a show, speaking out following her divorce from Ben Affleck.

Jennifer Lopez has been in the news a lot over the years but not for her acting efforts or music, but mostly for her relationship drama.

Following months of speculation, it was confirmed that her and actor Ben Affleck were getting a divorce.

This marked the fourth marriage of the singers that was coming to an end.

But Lopez, who is currently performing on the European leg of her Up All Night tour, gave insight into her future romantic intentions.

While on stage performing in Bilbao, Spain, on Tuesday (July 15) the star interacted with a fan who was asking her for her hand in marriage.

The video isn’t clear whether they had a poster asking for marriage or just mouthed the words and J Lo picked up on it, but he response was pretty funny all the same.

Jennifer Lopez joked about her relationship woes while on stage (Ricardo Rubio/Europa Press via Getty Images)

After repeating the question, the crowd cheered but Lopez said, ‘I’m think I'm done with that’ in a clear reference to her many marriages over the years.

She closed by adding ‘yeah I tried that a few times’ before moving on and continuing her show.

A video of this moment has also begun circulating on social media.

Jennifer Lopez's past relationships

For those who haven’t kept up with Lopez’ love life over the years, here is a brief recap:

• She married actor Ojani Noa in 1997 but would get a divorce the following year in 1998.
• She would then marry dancer and choreographer Cris Judd in 2001 but would get a divorce in 2003.
• Lopez’s longest marriage was to Marc Anthony and the pair tied the knot in 2004 and got a divorce in 2014, the pair share two children.
• Lopez and Affleck then rekindled their relationship, getting married in 2022 before getting a divorce in 2025

Lopez filed for divorce with the Los Angeles County Superior Court, citing 'irreconcilable differences', back in August from Affleck.

Affleck hadn’t said much about the separation publicly, but in March of this year described the whole divorce as ‘embarrassing’.

Sitting down with GQ, Affleck opened up about their relationship breaking down.

He said: "Yeah, there’s no scandal, no soap opera, no intrigue. The truth is, when you talk to somebody, 'Hey, what happened?', well, there is no: 'This is what happened'.

Ben Affleck has spoken about his marriage coming to an end following reports of a divorce (PG/Bauer-Griffin/GC Images)

"It’s just a story about people trying to figure out their lives and relationships in ways that we all sort of normally do. And as you get older, this is true for me, I assume it’s true for most people, there is no 'So-and-so did this' or 'This was the big event'.

"It’s really, it sounds more like a couple’s therapy session, which—you would tune out of someone else’s couple’s therapy after a while."

Before adding: "For one thing, you start going, 'Okay, clearly this person has got these issues. Clearly they have these issues', and the reason I don’t want to share that, is just sort of embarrassing. It feels vulnerable."