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Man who 'slept with 1,000 women' issues severe warning after revealing what it did to him

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Updated 18:00 14 Jul 2025 GMT+1Published 17:54 14 Jul 2025 GMT+1

Man who 'slept with 1,000 women' issues severe warning after revealing what it did to him

The content creator has urged Bonnie Blue to reconsider her life plans as he opens up about having slept with more than 1,000 women

Joe Yates

Joe Yates

An influencer has staked claim to being the male answer to Bonnie Blue, and has warned the adult film star that she is making a 'big mistake'.

While you've probably never heard of Benny James, the Brit seemingly made a bit of a name for himself hitting clubs in London four times a week over the course of a decade - and in that time claims to have slept with more than 1,000.

At the time, the womanizer would tell himself that he was 'just living life' and that the scores of women he'd bed each week was all 'just a bit of fun' - but it was all a lie.

Instead of joy, the notches on his bedpost were a reminder that he was alone... something that the 31-year-old now realizes - sliding into strangers DMs because he 'didn't really like being on his own'.

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Benny James claims to have slept with more than 1,000 women (SWNS)
Benny James claims to have slept with more than 1,000 women (SWNS)

Now, the content creator, from Croydon in south London, is urging Bonnie Blue to reconsider her life plans after she claims to have slept with 1,057 men in a single day in an attempt to set a world record.

“I was probably like the male equivalent to Bonnie Blue back in the day,” James said.

"I would tell her to think about the future. In 10 years time, how's it going to affect your mental health? How is that going to affect you physically?

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"With me, my friends and family saw me as 'Jack the lad' - going out, having fun. But deep down, it was affecting me without me knowing, until I hit rock bottom."

He continued: "I think the way she's going, she gets so much negativity. That will play a big role.

The influencer pictured in a blue waistcoat back in 2019 during his playboy years, presenting an award (SWNS)
The influencer pictured in a blue waistcoat back in 2019 during his playboy years, presenting an award (SWNS)

"It’ll just build and build and build up. And then when you want to sit back and have a normal life, it's hard to do that.

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“Right now, I think it's just money, money, money for her. I feel for her because I feel like it's almost a type of self harm, almost like she’s doing it because she feels worthless."

James knows first-hand how that lifestyle can have an affect on you, as it led him into a deep depression, something his anxiety only made worse.

However, the playboy has since turned a corner after settling down with his partner, which he explains has helped him 'find himself again'.

"I’ve kind of just found myself in a good place, and where I promote stuff for mental health and things now I get a lot of love back from it," he added.

Featured Image Credit: SWNS

Topics: Bonnie Blue, London, Mental Health, Sex and Relationships, UK News

Joe Yates
Joe Yates

Joe is a journalist for UNILAD, who particularly enjoys writing about crime. He has worked in journalism for five years, and has covered everything from murder trials to celeb news.

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