Porn director reveals what it was like filming woman he was dating at the time with another man
How would you feel about filming your own girlfriend while she’s banging other guys? For Bang Bros' youngest director, it’s complicated.
When Logan Xander, from Florida went on The Bougie Show on YouTube in 2022 to talk about the porn industry, it quickly began to revolve around his romantic life outside of being an x-rated actor and director.
The 24-year-old is the porn company’s youngest director and has been dating fellow porn star Valerica Steele for some time.
The award-winner has also performed in and produced multiple videos for adult film , but one thing he’s had to do is direct his own girlfriend with other men.
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But if you thought he was the jealous type, think again.
"She was already established by the time we started dating," the young director admitted.
"I like had no interest in entering that at all."
He continued: "It don't bother me either. I didn't think that I would be able to accept it as much as I have been able to.
"But it really don't bother me."
He went on to say that if the male star was ‘gonna hold back because I’m there’, he’s not going to be happy.
He explained that as the director, he wants ‘the scene to be good’, and so he wants everyone to really go for it, like they would with any other director.
Xander said that by being a porn performer himself, he understands that the 'mindset' of sleeping with another performer on camera.
He also said that when compared to the girl he is dating, it’s completely different.
Just as he feels differently, he knows she does too when she’s having sex with another man.
He also didn’t want ‘to get in the way of her bag’ by making her only sleep with him on camera as it could majorly impact her career as the host agreed that men don’t want to watch a woman who only sleeps with one man.
But even though he understands the industry and actively sought it out to make a career out of, he knows there are a lot of downsides too.
Namely, he can’t jerk off to videos like he used to.
He explained: "Now I know all of the dudes I'm not going to jerk to my homies d**k.
"Sometimes I'll think I've found a good video and then... I can recognise d**ks now.
"So I'm like 'goddammit'. So I have to turn it off."
Previously speaking to LADbible, Xander explained that he had been trying to break into porn as fast as he could.
He shared: "I was actively looking for work in this industry for a while - pretty much as soon as I turned 18.
“By the time I was 19 there was a job posting for an editing position for the company, and I applied and got hired.
"I was, and still am, the youngest person with the company, and I worked hard and wanted to start directing.
"Eventually once I started directing I was opening up to the idea of being on camera, and then it all just went up from there.
"I love it and have really been enjoying my time and the work I do, despite some negative backlash people have due to outdated stigmas with regard to this industry."
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Britt Jones