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    ‘Proud’ actress defends filming real-life unsimulated sex scenes for controversial film

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    Published 11:19 22 Nov 2024 GMT

    ‘Proud’ actress defends filming real-life unsimulated sex scenes for controversial film

    The movie has remained one of the most controversial films thanks to its 'real life' sex scene

    Lucy Devine

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    Margo Stilley has defended filming an unsimulated sex scene, explaining she's 'proud' of the controversial movie.

    Back in 2004, Stilley starred in a film alongside Kieran O'Brien, in which the pair took part in a real-life, unsimulated intimate scene.

    'Unsimulated sex' refers to scenes in which the actors are actually having intercourse, as opposed to acting.

    Although rare, there have been a number of films over the years that have used them, including The Brown Bunny, released in 2003, and 2008 flick, Little Ashes.

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    Despite some of the controversy, Stilley has always defended her decision to film the real-life sex scene in her first movie, 9 Songs.

    The romantic drama focused on the intense relationship and sexual encounters between Lisa, a college student, and Matt, an English scientist.

    The film's creators made the decision to have unsimulated sex scenes in the movie, but that certainly ended up being a controversial one.

    In fact, it's now known for being one of the most explicit mainstream movies ever thanks to the fact it featured real-life sex, as opposed to simulated encounters. In one infamous scene, O'Brien actually ejaculates on camera.

    Stilley shortly after the movie was released (Alison Buck/WireImage)
    Stilley shortly after the movie was released (Alison Buck/WireImage)

    Despite the controversy, Stilley has always stood by her decision to take part in the scene.

    In a 2008 interview with the Irish Examiner, she explained: "When I did press conferences people would shout abuse at me."

    Stilley described being called a 'wh**e' and a 'sl*t', adding: "People ask me if I felt that [director] Michael Winterbottom took advantage of me because I hadn't acted before, but they forget that I developed the character."

    When asked about people's reactions, Stilley pointed out that the movie was 'about love and sex', adding: "It wasn't porn. I mean, I had sex with my boyfriend last night and that wasn't porn.

    "It was just hot sex! 9 Songs was a real film about love and sex, and I wanted to do that film and I am proud of it."

    Despite being thrust into the spotlight thanks to 9 Songs, Stilley went on to explain that she didn't feel she had been 'typecast' as a result.

    "I honestly can say it hasn't affected my career," she said. "I don't get seen only for roles as women who have sex a lot."

    The movie featured an unsimulated sex scene (StudioCanal)
    The movie featured an unsimulated sex scene (StudioCanal)

    Prior to becoming an actor, Stilley worked as a model after leaving her home in North Carolina and flying to Milan.

    She later ended up in London, where she landed a part in an Israeli advertisement through a modelling contact.

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