Gerrard Kaonga
Warning: This article contains discussion of sexual assault which some readers may find distressing.
An alleged party planner for Diddy revealed the very specific and strict rules that the rapper had for the women who attended - and the one question that was never asked.
Diddy, real name Sean Combs, currently faces a slew of charges, including sex trafficking, racketeering and transportation to engage in prostitution.
He has denied the accusations against him and is currently awaiting trial.
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In a new interview with the New York Post, a party planner who wished to remain anonymous revealed the rules the music mogul allegedly had in place for his parties, known as ‘Freak Offs’. They said they had worked for Diddy between 2004 and 2005.
The parties were described in the lawsuit as 'elaborate and produced sex performances that Combs arranged', and claimed victims at the events were given controlled substances to keep them 'obedient and compliant' while they were subject to 'physical, emotional, and verbal abuse'.
Speaking to the Post, the party planner explained the rules that the women had to abide by for these parties.
The source said: “The girls had to be young and hot, so I always had a scale nearby in case I needed to make sure. The number was 140 pounds, but if a girl was really tall, there was a little bit of discretion involved."
Most shockingly, the party planner claimed that organizers never asked for the ages of the female attendees.
The source also explained the reason why they believed the ages were never asked.
“It was don’t ask, don’t tell," they alleged. "At the time, I was really young myself and I honestly thought that we weren’t asking their age because of drinking laws.
“I never stayed around for the Freak Offs and had no idea that these girls were expected to have sex with people.”
There were other strict rules regarding appearance.
The alleged party planned added: “No flab, no cellulite. Not overly pierced or tattooed. No short hair. And the girls had to be young and hot.”
These rules also extended to outfits as female guests were allegedly not allowed to wear ‘pants, jeans and flat shoes'.
The planner stated: “Every girl had to wear a party dress, preferably very short, just enough to cover her butt cheeks, but no longer than mid-thigh.
"Cleavage showing. And every single one of them had to be wearing stilettos. That one, there was no exception: high stilettos.”
UNILAD has reached out to representatives for Combs in relation to the planner's allegations.
If you've been affected by any of the issues in this article, you can contact The National Sexual Assault Hotline on 800.656.HOPE (4673), available 24/7. Or you can chat online via online.rainn.org