unilad homepage
unilad homepage
    • News
      • UK News
      • US News
      • World News
      • Crime
      • Health
      • Money
      • Sport
      • Travel
    • Music
    • Technology
    • Film and TV
      • News
      • DC Comics
      • Disney
      • Marvel
      • Netflix
    • Celebrity
    • Politics
    • Advertise
    • Terms
    • Privacy & Cookies
    • LADbible Group
    • LADbible
    • SPORTbible
    • GAMINGbible
    • Tyla
    • UNILAD Tech
    • FOODbible
    • License Our Content
    • About Us & Contact
    • Jobs
    • Latest
    • Archive
    • Topics A-Z
    • Authors
    Facebook
    Instagram
    X
    Threads
    TikTok
    YouTube
    Submit Your Content
    Woman divides opinion after complaining about how she’s spoken to in dating app messages

    Home> Community> Life

    Published 19:08 16 Jan 2024 GMT

    Woman divides opinion after complaining about how she’s spoken to in dating app messages

    People were divided after she shared a screengrab of the messages

    Lucy Devine

    Lucy Devine

    google discoverFollow us on Google Discover
    Featured Image Credit: X/@ULLYMARK

    Topics: Sex and Relationships, Twitter, Sport

    Lucy Devine
    Lucy Devine

    Advert

    Advert

    Advert

    A woman has divided opinion online after she complained about the way she was spoken to on a dating app.

    Now, there are many elements of online dating that are totally unacceptable. From creepy messages to insults - and don't even get us started on unsolicited d**k pics - online dating can be a bit of a minefield.

    But when this woman shut down one match after a brief conversation, people were surprised.

    While some people agreed with the woman, others couldn't see her point of view at all.

    Advert

    The woman shared a screengrab of the messages.
    Unsplash

    Sharing a screengrab of the messages, she wrote: "Reasons why I don’t like to be nice to men."

    The screengrab showed a short conversation, in which the man said he loved hockey and that he was a Detroit Red Wings fan.

    The woman responded saying she was a Boston Bruins fan, and this is where the conversation took a nose dive.

    The man responded: "Tough life," which seemed to confuse the woman who responded: "Lmao excuse me?"

    "So many presidents cups yet so many first exits [sic]. Last cup was in 2010. Sad franchise," he said.

    People were divided by her response to the conversation.
    X/@ULLYMARK

    While some might have excused the chat as simply sports banter, the woman was pretty unimpressed with the insult to her local team.

    One person wrote: "I thought this is always how sports people who like different teams interact?"

    While another said: "I miss when conservative women would just find a boyfriend at church instead of going on the apps and getting confused when normal people treat women like human beings instead of a machine that you feed compliments into until you get what you want."

    And a third added: "This just seems like an extremely normal attempt at banter like... she’s gonna find it hard if THIS is what’s offending her."



    Others agreed, however, with one commenting: "I love setting men straight it's my fave pastime."

    And another said: "He is wrong multiple times and then has the audacity to bring up the last Bruins’ Stanley Cup win when it’s been longer since the Red Wings won a cup."

    To clarify the situation, the woman later added it was more about the man being 'rude' than her being offended.

    "Didn’t think I would have to say this, but: it’s not about what team is better now or in the past, it is about the rude tone. We were just starting to talk, that was uncalled for," she said.

    "I’m literally a Bruins fan, I’ve been told worse. I’m not offended, I promise lol."

    What do you think?

    • Man left in 'do or die' situation after meeting stranger from dating app turned into nightmare
    • Body positive model reveals disgusting messages she gets about her relationship
    • Man with micropenis shares brutal comment woman made after finding out about his private area
    • Woman found out husband was secretly a sperm donor after making incredible discovery in cupboard

    Choose your content:

    7 days ago
    8 days ago
    17 days ago
    19 days ago
    • Facebook
      7 days ago

      Healthy woman explained why she chose to end her life by euthanasia

      Wendy Duffy died by suicide on Friday

      Community
    • EMMANUEL DUNAND/AFP via Getty Images
      8 days ago

      Bizarre 'Scientology run' challenge explained as 'raid' trend sees teens storm church's buildings

      Users are divided on the trial, with some asking how they can 'sign up' to take part

      Community
    • ITV
      17 days ago

      Woman marrying convicted murderer on death row opens up about their relationship

      Tiana Krasniqi is set to wed James Broadnax, who was convicted of a double murder in 2009

      Community
    • Getty Stock
      19 days ago

      Hiring managers are sharing the worst interview experiences that make them reject people instantly

      Hiring the right person for the job can be extremely difficult, especially in a world of artificial intelligence and Zoom interviews

      Community