Woman reveals five signs she discovered that proved her husband is cheating with their babysitter
Topics: Reddit, Sex and Relationships, Life, Parenting
Callum Jones
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Topics: Reddit, Sex and Relationships, Life, Parenting
A woman has detailed the five signs she discovered that made her come to the shocking reality her husband was cheating on her with their babysitter.
To think your partner may be cheating on you is a horrible thought, though you want to be sure before throwing out wild accusations.
Well, one anonymous woman took to Reddit to detail the five signs she noticed that convinced her that her hubby was doing the dirty.
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Not with just anyone though, but the couple's 19-year-old babysitter.
The woman said the couple enlisted the services of their neighbor's daughter to look after their two sons while they were at work, a move that led to unexpected circumstances.
In the lengthy Reddit post, the woman explained the five signs that made her realize her husband was cheating.
This was the first sign the woman noticed that made her become suspicious of the pair.
She penned: "Around last July I started to get suspicious, because of how my husband and Maggie [name has been changed] would talk with each other.
"I came home one day to find my husband making Maggie laugh uncontrollably. I tried to forget about it, because I felt like I was becoming jealous of this younger woman."
She admitted it stayed in the 'back of my head' until the next red flag came about.
The anonymous woman went on to say how she was changing the bed sheets in the guest bedroom when she noticed something that raised suspicions.
"I found strands of blonde hair, no one in my family has blonde hair, I’m a brunette," she explained.
The worried wife tried her best to convince herself the babysitter had just napped, but the signs kept on coming.
Perhaps the most tell-tale sign something that was going on saw the woman's husband, 39, suggest they buy their babysitter a new car for her birthday.
I mean, you might reward hard work with a voucher or something, but a car is certainly next level.
"[My] husband’s argument was that her car was old, and if she took our boys out it would be safer in a new car," the woman said.
The red flags were building at this stage and the signs became more obvious.
It was a fresh look for the babysitter that made the woman even more convinced of the affair.
She wrote: "Then I notice her toes are painted black, my husband has a thing for feet. I’ve known this for our entire relationship, his favourite colour on my toes is black.
"Now I have this 19-year-old coming to work in high heels with her toes done in my husband’s favourite colour."
A bunch of deleted messages blew their cover and the woman was able to confirm her partner was cheating.
"They talk about spending the rest of their lives together, how she can move in as soon as I move out," she said.
After the woman discovered these five signs, she also had some much more concrete evidence like catching the pair kissing in the garden on their security cameras.
"Also I found snap chat on my husband’s phone which he’s never had before this. I have a copy of the conversations on my phone. I also have them on video kissing in our back yard. They must’ve forgot the security camera was there."
Yikes.