A bride who held off from having sex with her husband before tying the knot said she 'kind of feels lied to' after discovering he has a micropenis.
We've all heard the phrase "try before you buy", but that isn't always the case for some couples who - for a variety of reasons like religion or keeping up with traditional values - decide to skip getting down and dirty in the bedroom before exchanging vows.
But one woman on Reddit has shared the shocking discovery she made about her hubby and it appears that skipping sex before the wedding was a decision she has come to regret.
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She shared her experience on the 'Am I The A**hole' forum, where she wrote: "Newlywed husband (32M) wanted to wait til marriage for sex and just surprised me (27F) with micropenis on the honeymoon."
The anonymous user explained that her spouse had previously said he was 'old fashioned', which is why he didn't want to do the deed before their big day.
But, the size of his manhood has made her think otherwise and that he was just hiding it from her all along.
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"So, we only dated for six months. We've been engaged for another six and just got married on Saturday. I literally just got back from my honeymoon a couple hours ago," the newlywed bride said.
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"My husband isn't a religious guy, he just says he is 'old-fashioned like that'. We got close to fooling around a couple times but it never went far. I tried, but he always stopped after it went 'too far'.
"Anyway, fast forward to now...
"Am I the a**hole for reading into this and being upset that I waited until my wedding night to find out that he probably isn't as 'old-fashioned' as he says he is?"
The woman added: "I'm not going to shame him and honestly I don't even know how I'll broach the topic (and I'm not seeking advice). I honestly just acted like nothing was out of the ordinary and went to town with him, but... I dunno. I kind of feel lied to.
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"Like a half-truth... or something was intentionally withheld from me. This was unexpected, to say the least. And if you read this far, thanks for your time."
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Some people took to the comments section to say that the size of his penis isn't the issue, but the trust between them was.
"This is a serious trust issue," one person wrote.
"It's not the size that's at issue here, it's the fact that #1, he didn't trust her enough to tell her, and #2, now she cannot trust him not to be dishonest."
Repeating similar sentiments, someone else said: "He did deceive her, though. She was more than willing to test drive, yet he denied her the possibility because he knew she'd discover his little secret."
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What do you think?
Topics: Sex and Relationships, Reddit