Five things that happen when you stop masturbating forever as reality star reveals 10-year abstinence
Some of the changes will certainly surprise you...
Here are the five things that happen when you quit masturbating for good after one reality TV star revealed she'd quit the sexual act for a period of ten years.
We're often told about the benefits of masturbating, including how it reduces your chances of prostate cancer developing.
One bit of research found that having 21 orgasms a month reduces the risk of developing the deadly disease by 20 percent.
The survey, published in European Urology in 2016, stated: "We evaluated whether ejaculation frequency throughout adulthood is related to prostate cancer risk in a large US-based study.
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"We found that men reporting higher compared to lower ejaculatory frequency in adulthood were less likely to be subsequently diagnosed with prostate cancer.
"These findings provide additional evidence of a beneficial role of more frequent ejaculation throughout adult life in the aetiology of PCa [prostate cancer], particularly for low-risk disease."
While such won't be a problem for former Bachelor star Madison Prewett, she did open up previously on why she stopped masturbating.
Ultimately, it was the support of a faith-centered community - and her own spiritual beliefs - that helped her overcome what she saw as an addiction to porn and adult content.
"This has been a struggle," she said on her podcast. "This has been a huge part of my testimony, something I’ve struggled with since middle school.
"And thankfully, by the grace of God, and by the power of the Godly community and people around me, I have been free from porn and masturbation for...I don’t even know, 10 years?"
So, what would happen if you stopped masturbating for good?
Well, here are five things you'd likely notice...
Our bodies
The first place you might notice the effects of abstinence is in your body - and not necessarily in a good way.
Women might feel slightly more tense and notice more pelvic tension, YouTube channel Psych2Go says, as 'regular sexual activity increases blood flow to the pelvic region, which helps with relaxation and overall pelvic health'.
But this shouldn't be too serious, and different ways to relax can be implemented instead, like gentle exercises.
Sure, that might not be as exciting as an orgasm, but still good for the body...
As for men, the body could fight back in the form of wet dreams, as a study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found. Men who go without ejaculation for a long time are more likely to experience them.
Our brains
You're likely to notice a difference in your mind too, which, again, could go either way. And that's because masturbating - and finishing - gives us a dopamine hit. But giving it a break can help give us a temporary boost, Psych2Go says.
One study found men who gave it up for a week had a spike in testosterone, boosting energy levels and confidence.
But if you go too long without any release, you might start feeling more stressed, irritable and... sexually charged, shall we say?
Dating and relationships
Psych2Go notes that some people find pausing self-pleasure helps them direct more energy toward their relationship and/or dating life, making emotional and physical intimacy feel more intense.
Some claim it boosts attraction and deepens connection, though most of this is anecdotal.
On the flip side, a study in Sexual Medicine Reviews shows that regular solo sessions can increase self-awareness and reduce performance anxiety, which often leads to smoother, more satisfying partnered sex.
In short, skipping masturbation might heighten the thrill for some, but sticking with it can actually improve your sexual confidence and experience with a partner.
Focus or frustration?
Some advocates say that giving up masturbation sharpens focus, boosts motivation and strengthens willpower.
However, research is mixed: while some studies report improved concentration, others show that trying to suppress sexual thoughts can actually make you obsess over them more.
The bottom line is that self-control is a skill you can build without completely foregoing pleasure.
Our view on sex
Abstaining from masturbation can shift how we relate to sex and intimacy.
Some people report feeling more in control of their desires, while others experience a sense of disconnection, as if part of their identity is muted.
A study in the Journal of Sex Research found that extended periods without self-pleasure can reshape how people experience intimacy - sparking a deeper appreciation for emotional bonds in some, but leading to frustration or guilt in others.
Topics: Health, Sex and Relationships, Life
Callum Jones