Pornstar Angela White explains the most important thing men can do in the bedroom

It might go without saying, but pornstars know a fair bit about sex. And one popular star once explained the most important thing men should know about being intimate.

Australian adult star Angela White has been in the industry just under two decades so has likely had a fair few encounters.

In a TikTok video posted in 2022, Angela decided to give her male fans some tips on what most to focus on in the bedroom when with female partners.

And before your mind starts racing, her advice is very simple and even the most inept in the bedroom can strive for it to keep their partners happy.

Speaking to Dmarge, she was firstly asked to provide the most important thing that she would teach about sex, and she responded: “Good sex starts with communication.

“Being able to clearly communicate with your partner what you want and ask questions during sex. So ‘do you like this, does that feel good, should I go faster, should I go softer?’

“Really being present with your partner and listening, I think that’s the most important thing.

“I think too many men focus on the size of their d**k and not actually the person in front of them.”

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“When asked how much talk is ‘too much talk’, Angela said: “I think everyone is going to be different when it comes to what is too much talk and what is the right amount of talk, but again that comes down to communication.”

Sounds simple enough really, doesn’t it?

Angela has been in the business for a good while, and has spent a lot of that time dispelling some of the big myths that surround the porn industry.

She’s got one of the biggest OnlyFans accounts in the world and has been described in some quarters as the ‘Meryl Streep of Porn’.

She has also given her views on the perception of women in the industry.

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She has said: “If a man goes into porn and is having sex with a bunch of women, he’s considered a champion. He’s celebrated, but a woman is sl*t-shamed.

“That myth in and of itself says a lot about our society and culture and how we view women in relation to sex.”

“Women are still being sl*t-shamed for expressing their sexuality on their own terms, but with the explosion of OnlyFans, I feel like adult entertainment has become a little bit more normalized.”

Topics: Sex and Relationships, TikTok

Gerrard Kaonga

Gerrard is a Journalist at UNILAD and has dived headfirst into covering everything from breaking global stories to trending entertainment news. He has a bachelors in English Literature from Brunel University and has written across a number of different national and international publications. Most notably the Financial Times, Daily Express, Evening Standard and Newsweek.