unilad homepage
unilad homepage
    • News
      • UK News
      • US News
      • World News
      • Crime
      • Health
      • Money
      • Sport
      • Travel
    • Music
    • Technology
    • Film and TV
      • News
      • DC Comics
      • Disney
      • Marvel
      • Netflix
    • Celebrity
    • Politics
    • Advertise
    • Terms
    • Privacy & Cookies
    • LADbible Group
    • LADbible
    • SPORTbible
    • GAMINGbible
    • Tyla
    • UNILAD Tech
    • FOODbible
    • License Our Content
    • About Us & Contact
    • Jobs
    • Latest
    • Archive
    • Topics A-Z
    • Authors
    Facebook
    Instagram
    X
    Threads
    TikTok
    YouTube
    Submit Your Content
    Man explains his extreme fear of women which has forced him to live in isolation for 55 years
    Home>News>Health
    Published 11:33 15 May 2024 GMT+1

    Man explains his extreme fear of women which has forced him to live in isolation for 55 years

    Callixte Nzamwita from Rwanda has lived in solitude for over 50 years because of his fear of women

    Poppy Bilderbeck

    Poppy Bilderbeck

    google discoverFollow us on Google Discover
    Featured Image Credit: @AfrimaxEnglish via YouTube

    Topics: Health, Mental Health, World News, Africa

    Poppy Bilderbeck
    Poppy Bilderbeck

    Poppy Bilderbeck is a freelance journalist with words in Daily Express, Cosmopolitan UK, LADbible, UNILAD and Tyla. She is a former Senior Journalist at LADbible Group. She graduated from The University of Manchester in 2021 with a First in English Literature and Drama, where alongside her studies she was Editor-in-Chief of The Tab Manchester. Poppy is most comfortable when chatting about all things mental health, is proving a drama degree is far from useless by watching and reviewing as many TV shows and films as possible.

    Advert

    Advert

    Advert

    A man has opened up about living in solitude for over 55 years because of his phobia of women.

    At the age of 16, a man named Calixte Nzamwita - who lives in Rwanda, Africa - made a significant decision which would impact his life for the next half-a-century - he wouldn't go outside of his house if it meant he'd come into contact with women.

    Calixte Nzamwita lived behind closed doors for 55 years (YouTube/ Afrimax English)
    Calixte Nzamwita lived behind closed doors for 55 years (YouTube/ Afrimax English)

    Last year, at the age of 71, Nzamwita sat down with Afrimax Publishers & General Enterprises Limited's YouTube channel Afrimax English to reveal why he made such a drastic decision.

    Advert

    He said: "[Translation] The reason I locked myself inside here and have a fence on my house is because I want to make sure that women will not come close to me."

    The footage shows a mud house and a strong fence build all the way around the perimeter, allowing for some outdoor space for Nzamwita. The fence covered in bits of cloth so it's hard to see in or out of the residence.

    But why doesn't Nzamwita want any sort of contact with women in particular?

    He let a woman into his home last year (YouTube/ Afrimax English)
    He let a woman into his home last year (YouTube/ Afrimax English)

    Well, he explained: "I do not want women around me because they make me really scared."

    According to Afrimax English, Nzamwita says he's scared of women because of 'poverty'.

    Nzamwita's strong fear of women is known as a condition called gynophobia.

    Medical Today explains: "Gynophobia is an intense and irrational fear of women. The disorder differs from misogyny, which is hatred and prejudice toward women that people learn through social environments.

    "It is a type of specific phobia. A specific phobia relates to a phobia of a specific situation, object, activity, or animal. A person may develop a specific phobia from observational learning or experiencing a traumatic incident, usually during childhood."

    However, despite his fear of women, its women living around his house who helped him survive all those years in isolation.

    A woman told the outlet Nzamwita doesn't let them come 'close or talk to him' so they 'give him things by tossing them into his house'.

    "And then he comes and picks them up," she added. "[...] He takes what we offer from a distance."

    Nzamwita said: "The way I live is enough for me. I didn't have any idea of having a woman and I'm okay with that."

    In 2023, Nzamwita made progress in tackling his phobia by allowing a woman into his residence. Although, she told Afrimax English it was only because people from the channel were there too.

    Medical Today also notes that gynophobia can be taught how to cope with the condition with the help of mental health professionals who can aid in them 'chang[ing] their patterns of thought and behavior to improve their quality of life'.

    If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available through Mental Health America. Call or text 988 to reach a 24-hour crisis center or you can webchat at 988lifeline.org. You can also reach the Crisis Text Line by texting MHA to 741741.

    • Man diagnosed with autism at 42 explains how he was misdiagnosed by doctors for years
    • Man, 20, explains why he decided to amputate his leg after years of suffering
    • Sole survivor of Air India crash explains how his life has changed since tragedy and heartbreaking impact it's had
    • Diagnosed psychopath breaks down disturbing hidden clues that make him unlike other people

    Choose your content:

    3 hours ago
    4 hours ago
    10 hours ago
    • Greggory Di Salvo / Getty Images
      3 hours ago

      TSA announces discounted PreCheck membership for adults under a certain age

      Travelers will have to be quick to catch the discounted deal that shaves a third off the cost

      News
    • ruhicenet/instagram
      4 hours ago

      Hantavirus cruise passenger reveals he attended jam-packed wedding after leaving ship

      The passenger, a Youtube influencer, attended a wedding with hundreds of guests the same day the outbreak was announced

      News
    • Getty Stock Photo
      10 hours ago

      Doctor issues toilet warning and says everyone should follow 'two-hour' rule

      Dr Karan Rajan explained how often we should be using the toilet and what it could mean if we regularly go too often

      News
    • (Photo by Matthew Horwood/Getty Images)
      10 hours ago

      Pot Noodle spark debate after calling out customers who don't like the vegetables

      The noodle company urged people to 'stop complaining'

      News