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Health expert reveals six huge changes to your body when you give up sex for a year

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Published 16:56 4 Jul 2025 GMT+1

Health expert reveals six huge changes to your body when you give up sex for a year

From your immune system to stress levels, here's everything that's impacted

Ellie Kemp

Ellie Kemp

Featured Image Credit: PeopleImages/Getty Images

Topics: Mental Health, Health, Sex Education, Sex and Relationships

Ellie Kemp
Ellie Kemp

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A sex expert has revealed exactly what happens to your body when you go celibate for a year.

We've already explored what happens when you give up masturbation for good - and doing so has its pros and cons. Whether it's by choice or not, finding yourself in a dry spell isn't exactly uncommon.

But turns out, going a year or more without getting laid can have some pretty unexpected effects on our health.

“A year without sex creates a cascade of changes that aren’t limited to just missing physical intimacy,” explains Anita Fletcher, a sex expert at adult toy company Fantasy Co.

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"Your body doesn't just ‘forget’ about sex, but instead adapts in ways that can be both empowering and challenging.”

Fletcher unpacks the full 12-month journey, explaining how everything from your immune response recalibrates to how the way you see yourself shifts over time.

Hormones

Some might experience a lower libido (LaylaBird/Getty Images)
Some might experience a lower libido (LaylaBird/Getty Images)

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The hormonal changes during a year-long dry spell are more complex than most people realize. Testosterone levels, which drive sexual desire in all of us, can actually fluctuate in unexpected ways.

“Initially, some people experience a dip in testosterone, which can lower libido even further,” Fletcher explains.

“But here's the interesting part - after several months, some individuals see their levels stabilize or even increase as their body adjusts to the new normal.”

The absence of regular oxytocin release - the 'bonding hormone' produced during physical intimacy - also has an impact.

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Without those regular oxytocin hits, people tend to report feeling less emotionally connected not just to potential partners, but to friends and family as well.

Immune system

You might be abstinent, but your immune system will certainly take a pounding (Hiraman/Getty Images)
You might be abstinent, but your immune system will certainly take a pounding (Hiraman/Getty Images)

Regular sexual activity helps our immune system through increased immunoglobulin A production. A year without sex can mean more frequent minor illnesses like colds.

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The lack of physical closeness also affects overall health. Skin-to-skin contact releases hormones that support immune function, so people in long-term abstinence sometimes notice they feel more physically vulnerable to everyday bugs.

Mood

Mental clarity might soon follow (Electravk/Getty Images)
Mental clarity might soon follow (Electravk/Getty Images)

The mental health impacts of extended abstinence vary from person to person. Dopamine, the neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and reward, typically decreases when sexual activity stops.

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“People often describe feeling emotionally flat or less motivated in the first few months,” Fletcher explains. “But others report a sense of mental clarity that they hadn't experienced in years. It really depends on your relationship with sex and intimacy.”

Touch starvation becomes a real issue for many. Humans need physical contact for emotional regulation, and when sexual touch disappears, people often crave other forms of physical connection more intensely.

Stress and sleep

Sleep quality can dip, too (Andrii Lysenko/Getty Images)
Sleep quality can dip, too (Andrii Lysenko/Getty Images)

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Sexual activity naturally helps regulate sleep cycles and manage stress hormones like cortisol. Without this natural stress relief, sleep quality often suffers initially.

“I've had people tell me they feel more wound up, especially in the evening when they used to rely on intimacy to unwind,” says Fletcher. “Your body has to find new ways to process stress and prepare for sleep.”

However, some people discover they sleep more soundly once they adjust, particularly if their previous sexual experiences were anxiety-inducing or unsatisfying.

Self-perception

Your self-perception can change - for better or worse (Jamie Grill/Getty Images)
Your self-perception can change - for better or worse (Jamie Grill/Getty Images)

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What is arguably among the deepest of changes is how people view themselves and their bodies.

Some report feeling disconnected from their physical selves or questioning their sexuality, which Fletcher says can become 'strained'.

Some people start to wonder if they're still sexual beings, while others feel liberated from what they see as sexual pressure," she explains.

Body image issues can intensify when sexual validation disappears, but conversely, some individuals develop a stronger sense of self-worth independent of sexual desirability.

Empowerment

Some find the journey empowering (JLco - Julia Amaral/Getty Images)
Some find the journey empowering (JLco - Julia Amaral/Getty Images)

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Not everyone experiences a year without sex as deprivation. Many discover unexpected benefits: increased focus on personal goals, stronger emotional boundaries, and deeper non-sexual relationships.

“I've worked with people who describe their celibate periods as transformative,” Fletcher says. “They learned to find fulfilment and pleasure in other areas of life, which actually made them more confident sexual partners when they chose to return to intimacy.”

Fletcher adds: "The year without becomes a reset button – not just physically, but psychologically. People often emerge with clearer boundaries, better communication skills, and a more authentic understanding of what they actually want from intimate connections. Rather than being about deprivation, it can be an intentional pause that leads to more fulfilling sexual experiences down the road.”

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