A sex worker has revealed some of the things she has learned from observing her clients during her job.
Katija Cortez is a high-end escort living in Sydney, and says that since becoming an escort she has been collecting 'data' from her clients.
For anyone who read that sentence and immediately panicked, this is not about specific individuals but about trends and patterns she has noticed across her clientele.
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And sorry, gents, but it seems that the outlook is not great for men's prowess at the horizontal tango.
That's because the 28-year-old has come to accept that men appear to be getting worse in bed.
And that covers everyone from young to old, leaving Katija perplexed at how their wives and girlfriends are going to cope in the future.
She opened up about the effect his could have to news.com.au, as well as suggesting why she thinks this could be happening.
Katija said: “There are so many husbands, boyfriends, and men, young and old, who have absolutely not a single idea how to please a woman.
"How are their wives, girlfriends and women in general putting up with this?”
And there is one thing which she thinks could be a problem for many of the men she has encountered, and that's the easy availability of online porn.
She said: “Porn can be an amazing educational tool. It can give some guidance on the general flow of a session.
"You don’t need to compare your size or stamina to that of a porn star, but if you can’t even last two seconds and only do missionary, and can’t even execute that properly then we have a problem."
She added: “There are also lots of self-help guides and videos that teach better bedroom etiquette and technique specifically for males.”
The 28-year-old went into further detail about how many of the men she has slept with demonstrate a lack of knowledge about female anatomy which can lead to an unfulfilling experience for their partner.
She said: “Many men still don’t know where the clit is."
Katija explained that this is compounded by not communicating properly, saying: “Lots of men do not ask their sexual partners what they like. The best encounters are ones where guys ask me what I also like."
She added: “All participants in a session with people they’ve not slept with before should be asking their partner what they like, checking in to see if something feels okay."
So chaps, the upshot is to listen to your partner and pay attention to what works for her.
It's unreasonable to expect to automatically be good at something, and sex is no different.
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Kit Roberts